The Out Basket

11.30.2005

In which Christmas plans for Evan are laid

A few weeks ago, Evan expressed the desire for a "big boy" bed - a twin-sized bed. He actually threw quite a little fit over it, as we could not provide one immediately.

It so happens that Chris and I had been discussing getting him a twin bed for Christmas, and so I had a couple of options. I told him he could wait awhile for something really cool, or we could put a twin mattress on the floor for him right away. He didn't like the mattress-on-the-floor solution, and so he agreed to wait.

He's currently sleeping in his toddler bed, which was converted from his crib. I'm actually pretty pleased that we've gotten four and a half years out of our investment - nothing else you purchase for a new baby lasts as long! That's half of the recommended life of his mattress! Although he hasn't quite grown out of the toddler bed, the time seems to be right to move him into a twin.

If you've been in his room, you know that it's pretty small, about 10' x 9'. And his toy collection is rivaled only by the book collection. The train table has to live in the Hall because there simply isn't enough space in there to play with it. Likewise his desk. The solution has seemed to be a loft bed.

A loft bed is the top bed of a pair of bunk beds. The underside is left free for a desk or play space, and frees up about 28 square feet of floor space. The going rate? $500 - $700. Yikes!

A Google search found College Bed Lofts. They are designed to be very basic, and completely customizable. The web site is full of ideas - curtains across the bottom to make a "fort"; rope lighting and a beanbag to make a cool hang-out space; bookshelves, chalkboards, train tables, refrigerators, micorwaves, even a short couch or futon for extra seating/slumber parties. Paint it any color. Decorate it however you like. Of course, they're designed for dorm rooms, but many, many kids have them and seem to love them. $337 will purchase a loft bed and have it shipped or you can purchase the plans for $10 and build your own for about $120 in lumber and hardware. I love companies like this - and yes, we're going to build our own. I downloaded the plans this morning.

It seems pretty easy; reviews on the web page said that folks with minimal woodworking skills could build them. They take about a weekend to build; it seems that some families make family projects out of building the loft bed. Moms have done it, and so have kids, with Dad's direction of course. By the way, there are twin, full and queen sizes. I suspect that some of what we learn building these will come in handy when we do camping beds.

For kids, there's a safety rail modification that complies with the government's guidelines for youth beds. Evan loved sleeping in the overhead bunk on the train; I think he's going to love this bed. He never falls out of bed any more, so I'm not fearful of him getting hurt.

I had intended to buy him Spiderman bedding, but all I can find is the really cheap stuff - 120 count sheets, 70% polyester/30% cotton. Yuck. I'm leaning toward getting some good stuff from Company Kids - some of his current bedding is from them, and it's great quality. I really love the "Round Table" bedding - fantasy knights and dragons. This will require a change of curtains from Thomas the Tank Engine, though! Room decorations should be easy enough - he's already got the Wizard puppet and castle building blocks. And estucheons are pretty easy to cut out and paint.

Now the challenge is how to make it a surprise for him. I'm thinking that we can partially assemble the bed and stow it upstairs somewhere before Christmas Morning. If we can get him out of his bedroom (while he's asleep? after he wakes up and goes downstairs?) Chris and I can probably finish the assembly in half an hour or so. I'd like to string a ribbon all through the house leading him up to his Christmas bed. Hmmm..... I could string the ribbon the night before, and he does sleep like the dead. It should be pretty easy to get him moved to our bedroom after he goes to sleep.

I just hope he's as excited about this as I am.

11.29.2005

In which Christmas consumes my waking hours

Now that Thanksgiving is passed, the Christmas decorating frenzy has begun.

We fetched the Christmas stuff out of storage this weekend past. Saturday the totes and boxes came home - had to leave Evan home to have enough room in the Quest. Since the weather was moderate (and Sunday was expected to be very cold) we spent the day putting up the outdoor decorations. The house has white icicle curtain lights hanging from the rooflines, and jewel-toned globe lights topping the icicle curtains. The bushes on front of the porch have their normal jewel-toned clear C-7 strands, and the juniper in the front yard has the same C-7s, with little clear lights for filler. Some of the C-7s are “twinklers” and they make a neat display. This year we decorated the fence dividing our yard from the neighbor on the east. It has a garland illuminated with clear lights running the length, and a wreath on the sidewalk end. It visually "ties" the juniper bush to the rest of the house. Last night as we were returning home, we decided that the effect from the upper (far) end of the street was very nice.

I can’t wait until it finally snows. I find the lights shining out from under the snow to be especially pleasing.

Sunday found us arising late, and we showered and sped off without breakfast to the grocery store and the storage unit for trees. It was indeed cold, made so mostly by the north wind. There were three trees in storage; the 9' tree for the "hall" - our vaulted-ceiling family room; a 7' tree for the living room; and a 4' tree that seems to vary in placement and decoration from year to year. The hall tree needed to be tied to the roof, but the two smaller trees fit inside the minivan. We quickly made room for the two large trees and erected them. I have to say that the "making room" part was a challenge, partly because we do seem to have a lot of furniture and partly because of the broadcast toys, but largely because of the totes and boxes that had arrived the day before. Because the living room curtains cut off the bay – and that’s where the tree goes – we also had to insulate the bay’s windows. That took some time, too.

Chris had to go to work to play catch-up, and I had shopping to finish, so we parted and returned later for the decorating frenzy.

I started Sunday night with the hall tree. The theme is red and gold, and I consider it a "decorator" tree. It's like a 9' floral arrangement. It drips. It displays my love of beads and shiny things, and decorating it is almost ritualistic, as many of the ornaments carry the significance of the holiday. Evan helped by hanging red icicles and the gold drops with the mirrors. He did a pretty good job of not hanging all of the icicles in any one place, considering his age and exuberance.

We had decided to put the Christmas village in the opposite corner of the hall. Chris cut a piece of plywood to rest on Mother's TV (which is only used for DVD movies, as it has never gotten cable attached) and on a leg cut to fit in the corner behind the television. I'm working on a papier mache' mountain to serve as a support for some of the porcelain houses, as well as a tunnel for the train. Several Christmases ago, Chris gifted me with an HO-gauge Hogwart's Express. Thus, we're building Hogsmede as the Christmas village. So far, it needs at least one more coat of papier mache' and a coat of paint. It's a big project.

Since the hall tree is nearly finished, we started unpacking the ornaments for the living room tree last night. This shorter tree is more the "family" tree, and the ornaments each hold a memory or significance to one of us. Evan's first, second, third, and fourth Christmas ornaments are on there, as well as a moose commemorating our trip to Yellowstone on 2003. I'm fond of the old-fashioned German style blown-glass ornaments, and so there are a bunch of those; a sewing machine for me, face cards for Chris, a flying pig from my Laureling. There is a hedgehog and an apple (SCA affiliations), and lots and lots of Santas. Chris' mom's chiming bells are on it, too - they're one of my favorite parts. The little brass bells really chime to ring carols. They remind me of the bell ringers in church on Christmas Eves past.

Also last night, Chris assembled the 4' tree; we put it in the breakfast nook bay window. I want to do that blue and gold celestial tree that I've wanted for years. I also decorated my "Portland" tree; like the "family" tree it's in the living room. When I was on the road last year, I was in Portland Maine during the holidays. Not only is it a great little city, but also we made some wonderful memories there. Chris and Evan flew up to spend New Year's there with me; while I worked, they toured the city. We went up to Arcadia National Park, which was remarkable in the winter, and toured lighthouses in the Portland area. (A The tree was the one that I put in my hotel room - in a fit of hotel humdrums, I went out to Target and purchased a tiny tree, tiny ornaments, and lights. I was able to decorate my hotel room since I couldn't enjoy the decorations at home. How I got the ornaments home all on one piece, I can't tell. But the tree now lives on the short bookcase in the living room.

My "office" tree is on the arts and crafts library shelf in the dining room. So far, I can't find the ornaments! They're in the garage I'm sure. The lights are red, and since the tree looked a little sparse, I added holly boughs to the pine. It's a 2' tree, and the theme is Santas - it looks very cool looking from the hall through the kitchen toward the dining room.

We purchased two huge poinsettias last night (under $16 for 10” pots at Costco), and they are gracing either end of the credenza. Chris changed the linens from fall to red and gold Christmas. We put the old-fashioned candy canes that Aunt Lena used to have, in her candy dish on the credenza, too.

Our status right now is "explosion". Work is taking up any waking hours not consumed with Christmas, and so although we've got a lot of decorations up, there is still some way to go. Until then, the totes and boxes seem to languish half-full and open everywhere. The TV in the living room is framed with them, and we have to sashay around two large totes to get into the front door. The front porch contains some of the chaos, but those decorations will too soon find a place. Mostly garland and such, I have plans for framing the front bay window and the top of the fireplace. And for lining the back porch with old(er) curtain lights. I hope the outlet on the back porch isn't on the same circuit as the front porch!!

The deadline is Thursday. The cleaning girls come on Thursday at noon (thank heavens!!) and the mess must be either contained or displayed by then. Then the fake pine needles and mylar garland detritus will be swept up, and the muddy footprints from Saturday will be scrubbed away.

What's next? I promised Mother Chex Mix sans added salt, and Evan has been promised Purina People Chow. ("Chocolate??” he said.) And I need to make cookies, and the need for save-the-banana bread is getting apparent. Some time in here, Midwinter sewing needs to consume my waking hours....

11.25.2005

In which Christmas Bays-style is explained

Christmas is perhaps my favorite holiday. I love the significance of Halloween, and any occasion that provides the opportunity to dress up is a good one. But Christmas is a season of such hope and love that it is by far the dearest to me.

This of course means that I do it to excess.

Well, not to excess, but my family sees it that way. It's not really excessive - there are only two or three trees (ok, maybe as many as five) to decorate. And we use artifical trees, because Chris is opposed to killing new ones every year. I'd like to achieve one Christmas tree per room, but the familial pressures are against it. And it all fits into RubberMaid totes. So it's neat, if voluminous.

When I say "Christmas", I'm not talking about just the commemoration of the birth of the Christ, but the spectrum of holidays that humans have placed around the winter solstice. Yule, Hannukah and others all speak to us of the return of "light", both in the literal sense and as a metaphor for enlightenment. As a season of peace, I find it to be especially meaningful as my belief system centers around peace as its fundemental theme. This season touches my heart, and for most of my adult life, I've been persuing the perfect Christmas.

What is a perfect Christmas? A tree that touches the ceiling, encrusted with lights and dripping with decorations. Mounds of presents. Rows of stockings belonging to friends and family, that are filled to overflowing. A fancy-dress holiday tea to celebrate the season with friends. Candle light. Snow. Christmas carols - but only after the first of December. A Christmas feast, with all twelve chairs at the big dining-room table filled, and the kitchen table, too. The decor as festive as the season and the guests.

I'm still striving for the perfect Christmas, and I suppose my expectations are too high. Last year was great; although I was mostly on the road before Christmas, the location was the Boston area, and so the season was spent partly with our east-coast family, the Jones'. I only wish I could get them out here one Christmas! Since we really don't have a lot of family, Chris and I invite friends for the holiday instead.

Although I will again be on the road the last three weeks of December, I'm very much looking forward to this year. I have arranged my travel so I get to be home for the holiday weekend. My only regret is that all the decorating I'm doing I get to enjoy only for a few days. Oh well - I'll be here when I'll be home for Christmas.

11.23.2005

In which I ruminate on things Gothique

At our Pottering dinner Saturday night, the topic briefly turned to my recent rediscovery of my inner Goth. Arwen said that she'd never gone through that phase, and Rivka wrinkled her nose and agreed. Likewise, Chris maintains that he is not - never has been - Gothique. My mother never did understand the concept. Rivka's response got me to thinking about the concept, what it means to me, and the reasons for an apparent distaste for Gothness among family and SCA friends.

Let me first point out that in the title, I have used an alternative spelling of Gothic, to make a distinction between historical European Gothic (which I of course do) and the modern or neo-Gothic. Just to be clear - I do Gothic; I'd like to do more Gothique.

Way back when in the eighties, I was Gothique. Probably due in large part to the influence of Bret and friends, my hair was short and spiky, my clothing was typically dark, tailored and eccentric. I recall some favorite shirts that were dark and very textural; my jeans were black, and my footwear was a pair of cotton canvas boots to which I'd tied some orange, purple and black warp ends. I typically wore dark glasses (even after dark), which allowed me to people-watch without appearing to be rude. My music has always been eclectic, and although I did listen to some bands that might be considered "goth", it wasn't an exclusive thing. I listened to a lot of punk and new wave - music that has become typically 80's. I find that rather funny. Many Goths find classical and Medieval music to their liking, too.

The punkers of the 80's broke into a couple of sub-cultures. Those who couldn't maintain the punkers' extroverted lifestyles developed into the more introspective aesthetically inspired Gothique sub-culture. What distinguishes Gothiques? It's both a mindset and a dress code. Goths typically reject trendy people and ideas. They are the image of the artistic temperament. They are creative. They might maintain a cool, unemotional demeanor while being subject to inner turmoil, anger, or depression. They might be melodramatic. They tend to be introspective, and value personal expression and tolerance of diversity. They read a lot, both fiction and non-fiction. They're smart. Things that frighten or disturb people (death, creepy-crawlies, evil, sin, pain) are seen as beautiful; things that might be distasteful could be seen as artful.

The dress code is the stereotypical - but not compulsory - black clothing which frequently exhibits historical influences. Medieval (really 19th century Medieval Revival) and Victorian themes predominate. Colors range across the spectrum, excluding pastels and neons which are seen as trendy. The head-to-toe unified impression is important in Gothique dressing. Gold is not commonly worn, but any of the jewel tones, silver, grey, and white are found. The clothing is sometimes hand- or custom-made, but there are a few retailers out there selling Gothique clothing. Clothing is seen as an expression of uniqueness, as well as a mask or an impression of the character of the wearer.

So, how do these things apply to me? What aspects of my personality are Gothique? There isn't a checklist, but I do tend to display the following characteristics, characteristics that have been part of my personality since my late teens.

  • I tend toward the artistic temperament. Although I'm probably more animated and passionate than the normal Goth, I do tend to suffer from anxiety, insecurity, and depression. Although suffering is a natural part of living, I may depart from the Gothique tendency here in that I believe that part of our humanity is to be found in alleviating suffering.
  • I try mightily to control my external demeanor. I have spent years trying to project a certain image or expression based upon the need of the environment. I'm still learning to maintain a cool exterior when logic says that I should be throttling someone for being stupid.
  • I read a lot. Both fiction and non-fiction are reading "for pleasure".
  • I believe strongly in diversity and self-expression. I crave the companionship of people who are different from myself, and although I feel a little awkward about it, I try to learn about the things that make them different.
  • I find beauty in things generally considered beautiful, but also in things that might be distasteful or ruined. I like things that go bump in the night; I like mystery.
  • I find old things to be more interesting than mainstream ideas, things, and practices. Goths feel like they will be able to survive when modern society crashes and burns from it's own weight.
  • I've always loved history. Goths tend to admire historical things - literature, architecture, and clothing - and many of them study things that are Gothic. Castles, cathedrals or illuminated manuscripts might be the inspiration for clothing or home embellishment.
  • I find nature - all of it - to be beautiful. I like spiders, bats, snakes, and mice as much as flowers and mountains. I like bare trees as much as full ones. I like darkest night and moonlight maybe a little more than daylight, although daylight has the advantage of making gardening easier.
  • I see death as a natural part of life, and although I struggle with this, my mind knows that death should be embraced as strongly as life when death becomes more comfortable than living. I don't crave death or partake in what is termed as the cult of death, but I do see it as the compliment to living, rather than a thing of evil. (Taking of human life is evil.)
  • I like wearing black. It doesn't predominate in my wardrobe, but you'll likewise find very little pastel and no neon. My tastes tend toward the dramatic - if it wasn't considered unprofessional, I'd wear a lot more velvet and lace to work. Luckily black is considered professional. In general, I choose purples and warm blues or reds to pair with black. I think it's pretty cool that beaded clothing has become more mainstream.
  • I fuss with shoes matching socks, or socks matching the clothing. I try to achieve an over-all impression in dressing. I find it difficult. I may go through two or six combinations before deciding on any one thing.
  • Although I don't like to draw a lot of attention to my fingernails - they're never neat enough - I do paint my toenails. And it's never a mainstream color. Iridescent purple/green, red/gold or blue/silver are my favorites.
  • My jewelry has always been silver. I have very little gold. Even if I wear gold, I pair it with silver. Even my wedding band is yellow and white gold.
  • I started "costuming" in high school. The first clothing I made was Japanese, and screen-printed by hand. In college I experimented with making art-clothing, and then got involved with the SCA. Recently I've discovered Harry Potter-universe fantasy clothing, and Halloween clothing.
  • The sub-culture just has more interesting people than the mainstream.

More importantly, I think that the things that make me "Gothique" are more similar than different from my SCA friends.

  • Artistic temperament? The SCA is full of 'em! We've all got some sort of drama going on.
  • Control my external demeanor? It's considered a Peer-Like Quality in the SCA. In the face of turmoil, I have cultivated the Mona Lisa smile in an effort to keep people from thinking that they have provoked me.
  • We tend to read a lot. There's a lot of research that goes on in the SCA and we wouldn't do it if it wasn't fun.
  • Diversity and self expression? Heck, I live in the "you can't tell us what to wear/think/do" Kingdom. The good part of this is that we can pursue authenticity, but we have to allow the fantasy folks and the ones that think they know what they're taking about, and the ones who use their position to increase their own self importance, and yes, the Goths.
  • I find fun in things generally considered to be too much trouble to be worth the effort. I like to be authentic; I think it's fun to get inside the mindset of a 15th century woman.
  • The Medieval/Renaissance is frequently more interesting than mainstream ideas, things, and practices. SCA folks feel like we will be able to survive when modern society fails - we know how to stay warm when the electricity goes out.
  • SCAers share a love of history. Many of us concentrate on or specialize in the architecture, clothing, or illuminated manuscripts of the Gothic era.
  • Death probably occupied more of the psyche of Medieval people than it does today. It was certainly more prevalent and arrived earlier. I'm not sure this was a bad thing, since many times to prolong life is to prolong suffering.
  • I like wearing clothing that transports me into another - a Gothic - mindset. Black isn't a common period color due to the expense and effort of creating the dye. Luckily jewel tones predominate in period clothing, and so I can still wear colors that I look and feel good wearing. I'm a bit of a magpie; I love beads.
  • For an authentic look, medieval dressing must present an overall impression. This means head to toe - headwear and shoes. It takes more effort but it's worth it.
  • It's good that my toenails are hidden in period footwear.
  • We get to play dress-up in the SCA, and it necessitates hand-made clothing.
  • The SCA just has more interesting people than the mainstream.

In short, the SCA lifestyle closely parallels Gothique lifestyle. Ok, the clothing is different. I've seen people wear SCA clothes to work, and people wear Gothique clothes to work; neither are exactly professional, so we both have to capitulate to the modern office aesthetic. The SCA is closer to Gothique than the mainstream is to the SCA. Right? So why the rejection of the culture by SCAers?

Is it because the Gothique stereotype carries with it overtones of Satanism, morbidity, violence and Marilyn Manson? Maybe. But like most stereotypes, these things aren't necessarily a part of Gothic culture - they're probably more prevalent among the punkers. To attract attention because we're dressed "funny" shouldn't be an issue, because we routinely go out after events in period clothing. Things that other people find tiresome, tedious, or distasteful are attractive to us, like those of us who strive for authenticity, or who prefer hand-made "scrolls" to computer-generated ones.

Yes, I've probably got the Gothique mindset; I'm working on the dress code. The problem is that I have a need to be corporate. Corporate is not Goth. Well, mostly. Although the lace, velvet, and period dress forms would be considered over-the-top in corporate-land, black is pretty much the corporate-formal uniform.

I've been building my black wardrobe, and thinking that I can pair a long black jacket with a red, purple, white, or black lace top. I have black slacks and skirts, and a office-wear little black dress. I prefer long skirts anyway. I recently purchased some black undergarments (no, a white bra does not go under a black travel-knit top) and am shopping for said lace tops. Natural fabrics are my style (but travel knit - acetate/spandex - meets my business wardrobe needs) so I'm looking for silk or something equally comfortable. I did pick up two faux wrap sweaters before my last trip that look great on me. Of course they're both black - the other colors offered were pastels. bleah I've been finding some cool antique-looking jewelry out there, and I may start to dabble in makeup for work. The thing about makeup is that I feel like I have to be consistant about it - I can't decide to do it one day but not the next.

Hair is an issue. I can't color it something funky, because it's not corporate, and it's not period-authentic. But I can do wash-out colors if I'm home for more than a week at a time. My casual wardrobe is also an issue, but will serve, since Gothique implies "dressing up" to me. Although my casual wardrobe doesn't have much in the way of holes, when I do buy every-day clothes, I'll be sticking with more of the Gothique colors and styles. Not that I have much in the way of pastels in my closet, but...

Ahh, another diversion, even if it's an old one.

11.21.2005

In which more inexplicable cat behavior is observed

It must be a cat thing. Maybe mine really are normal; I can't decide.

This morning I watched Koshka drink water. She's just as weird as Moonshadow and Alexander but different. She puts both front paws on the water dish (we have big heavy ceramic ones, or there'd be a lot more messes) and drinks out of the far side of the dish. Occasionally, she touches the water's surface with her right paw while she's drinking. After she got done, I checked her paw to see how wet it was. She must be just barely touching the surface, because only the very tip of her paw was wet.

Why do they do that?

11.18.2005

In which there is much anticipation

Home!

I suppose it's because I actually got to spend several weeks at home this fall. I'm really looking forward to getting home - moreso than usual. My flight is scheduled at 8:00 tonight, but I'm going to try to catch an earlier flight. I'm not really confident about either of the early flights, since I don't see any of them available for booking, but it never hurts to try. I've got USA Today and Ivanhoe if I end up cooling my heels for several hours.

I watched the A&E Harry Potter behind-the-scenes program last night. It really piqued my excitement. I do wish I could go to the movie tonight, but we've got a nice evening planned tomorrow with friends. It'll be nice to dress up and go out. I do need to decide what I'm wearing, and if I go as Violet Smethwyk, I must do some minor adjustments on my dress tomorrow.

Maybe, if I don't get in until after 9:00 tonight, and since Evan will come to the airport - maybe he'll sleep in in the morning!

11.17.2005

In which more than you ever wanted to know about Melanie's job is explained

The most common question that I encounter when away from home on business is, "what do you do?" I can't say that I'm a consultant or a trainer, or a software installer, because although my day involves all those things, it's not a concise description of why I spend as much as two or three weeks in places far from home. My midwestern accent certainly marks me as a "foreigner" in most places. If I say that I'm an Implememtation Specialist for WideOrbit, it only confuses the issue.

So let me start from the beginning.

Every element that you see on the television - the programs, the promotions, the commercials - have to be scheduled. That schedule is pretty complex. Some of those elements - the commercials- are aired in return for compensation of some sort, usually a payment of cash.

In the old days, the traffic department at a television station would hand-write the commercials as they were sold onto to long narrow strips of paper, which were in turn stuck up to the wall in the order of air. The resulting schedule was then transfered to paper by a typist, and then each of the strips of paper were forwarded to the business office to be typed up on a bill. This process was of course labor intensive, limiting potential revenue, and the risk of error was huge.

In the 1960s, with the advent of computer technology, enterprising companies began using technology to make the process more streamlined and profitable. Revolutionary for their day, the Columbine systems marked a sea change in the industry. Suddenly television stations became a business rather than a public service. The number of sponsorships increased, and lengths became standardized at the :30 unit. The length of the programs began to shrink accordingly.

By the 1990s, the posibilities of broadcasting had mushroomed to the point that the computer systems serving traffic departments had to adapt or die. Coupled with thirty years of development in personal computing and broadcasting equipment, traffic systems became both easier to use - Windows-like interfaces - and more complex to meet the demands of the industry.

WideOrbit has developed what I consider the best traffic software in the business. One of the reasons that it is so good is that it is intuitative to use. The other reason is that it is is highly configurable and adaptable to a wide variety of the ways that television broadcasters do business. WideOrbit permits the stations to schedule and bill spots, as well as to mine the data in ways which make the revenue picture very clear to management. This also means that it is a very complex system.

Considering the complexity of the system, the interfaces really are easy to use. Our challenge is to teack users how to use the system, and to take advantage of the features - the complexity - of the system. The challenge includes configuring the system in such a way that it meets the client stations' needs. So, my job is to train new users on WideOrbit, as well as to troubleshoot any issues that stand in the way of effective, efficient use of the system. We make recommendations as to processes and workflow, and we advocate for the client's needs. We spend five weeks on-site with each of our clients, and one week of off-site training is dedicated to them as well. The result is that the sucess of the client becomes the focus of our attention.

What do I do? I make my clients happy and sucessful. I'm lucky to work at a company where the products put me at an advantage.

11.16.2005

In which the season's second snow creates a stir

It's going to freeze tonight in Alabama.

This is remarkable because they aren't used to cold weather here, and they don't like cold weather here, either. There is some grousing among the station's personnel about it. Earlier this week, with highs in the 70s and what natives consider low humidity seemed a little odd to us Coloradans. Not unwelcome, but we're used to at least one snowstorm by mid-November. We have been somewhat unreserved about how we feel about the weather here - the humidity really was somewhat uncomfortable on Monday and Tuesday.

In response to the complaints about the coming cold, I shared some pictures that Chris took at sunrise yesterday. The picture of a cold Peakview Circle got remarks about how snowy Denver must be. It was my pleasure to reply that the snow in the picture is probably already gone - evaporated off the streets due to the altitude and the cold temperatures. One of the best parts about living in Denver, I think. And that no matter how hot it might be on summer days, the nights are always cool and pleasant.

I really love this picture of Evan bundled up against the cold. Of course it was a hit - everyone thinks he's as cute as I do. He's on his way to school, and I can see the sleepiness in his face. He's certainly warm in his poufy coat. I suspect that we don't really get him out into the snow enough.

The picture of the sun rising between sattellite dishes and pine branches evokes memories of arriving at work on cold winter mornings and dashing inside to the warmth and hot buttered pancakes with tea. The dishes are located on the north side of the Comcast Media Center building in the south Denver suburbs where Chris still works. (I worked there for nine years before joining WideOrbit.)

The CMC sits up on a hill overlooking the southern part of the valley in which Denver is built. There is very little except air between the hilltop and the high peaks of the Front Range - Mount Evans, Long's Peak, and Pike's Peak. It tends to be windy, but the view is one of the benefits of working there. The snowcapped peaks are breathtakingly beautiful throughout most of the year, and even moreso as the sun rises and tints the peaks with a rosy glow.

11.15.2005

In which business travel affords unexpected pleasures

For the casual traveler, a functional bed and shower suffice. The road warrior requires so much more, more than we usually get. Its the amenities and service that make this lifestyle tolerable. Days are intense; for eight or nine (or more) hours, we invest everything we have to insure our clients' success. In every case the job is demanding because no two installations are alike; every station we implement has a new set of people, hardware and infrastructure. There are great, smart learners, and there are those who require special handling. Some are motivated, others are demanding. Some of the management teams are supporting, some are absent. Some of the technical staffs are problem-solvers and some are obstructionists. Once we leave the station, the living space we have been able to secure really affects how well we can relax, come down, and prepare for another day tomorrow.

I'm on the road up to 75% of the time. Since so much of my life is spent far from the comforts of home, I have developed some preferences - demands - for traveling. Most of the time, there are aspects that fail to meet my expectations. The rooms are small, the service is poor, amenities are lacking.

This week is different.

Ten days ago, I received word that I was traveling to Opelika, AL this Sunday past. Opelika is near Auburn, the home of Auburn University. Although Opelika seems to be rather economically depressed, Auburn is a college town, so one might expect civilization. But a quick check of Orbitz showed Holiday Inn, Best Western, and Motel 6 as the moderately-priced hotels. Checking the only two business hotels in the area showed that the Hilton Garden Inn and the Marriott were both about $70 above the average lodging rate for the area. I had resigned myself to limited amenities and less service.

Imagine my surprise when my co-worker let me know that we were staying at the Marriott! Surely our small station would blanch at the cost! But John had finagled $89/night. Well, that seemed like a deal we couldn't refuse.

We flew into Atlanta and met at the airport. John had rented a car, and we drove south the hour and a half to Opelika. He had the forethought to print out the directions from the Marriott site. After several miles of driving through the countryside, I was beginning to doubt the wisdom of booking a hotel so far out in the boonies. It didn't seem to look so good for our intrepid travelers. Figuring that every Sunday is an adventure in our business, we pressed on.

After a call for directions to the hotel ("they're always wrong," the clerk on the phone said), we did finally make our way to the hotel. It seems that the mysterious "Grand National" sign that was beckoning drivers to turn left pointed the way to the Grand National golf course, and the Marriott hotel on the property. Our Marriott hotel.

The drive to the hotel is in the grande promenade style, and we felt more optimistic as the hotel came into view. Situated near Saughahatchee Lake (the pond in the picture is a largish bit of water landscaping but not the lake) and fairly surrounded by the golf course, the hotel looks more like a large country club. A piney forest surrounds the grounds, enveloping the hotel in a peace and natural beauty. Through the trees the lake is visible before the evening mists creep through the trees. The courtyard contains a fountain and two fire pits; the tiny white lights in the trees complete the inviting outdoor living areas.

But the real surprise was yet to come. My hotel room is by far the nicest I've had since I began traveling. An executive kitchen suite (yes, the promotional picture is my room, #400), it has two rooms, a large bathroom, two closets, and two front doors. The king bed is very comfortable, and the living room and kitchen are larger than those in our house. Two easy chairs and a divan in the living room make relaxing easy. There is a television in both the bedroom and the living room. A sliding glass door opens onto the fourth-floor balcony. My balcony faces east; the full moon and the rising sun both shine into my bedroom.

This would be enough, but the service from the hotel also exceeds that which I have experienced at most of my homes-away-from-home. In the thirty-eight weeks that I have spent on the road this year, only one or two other hotels have approached the service that we have gotten here. Each morning, John and I have breakfast at the hotel's resturaunt - included in the room rate - and the wait staff remembers the tea that I prefer. Everyone wishes us a good day on the way out, and they greet us when we come in at night. The room is always impeccable, and Housekeeping seems to make a point of leaving lights on and the televisions tuned to classical music for when we come "home". There are Otis Spunkmeyer cookies on the front desk.

The only racing motorcycle engines and sirens that I have heard since arriving here have been on the television. The only ambient sounds are voices from the courtyard and the thunderstorm that rolled through this morning. I sleep with the back door open to the fresh air and moonshine. No children are racing through the halls. I hear that there is a hot tub here somewhere, but I'm so content that I don't feel the need to wander. Well, that's not exactly true - I do crave a walk by the lakeside through the trees. Perhaps I'll change from travel knit to denim and go.

My suite at the Marriott sure makes the prospect of coming back to the rather bleak Opelika much more appealing. It's much harder leaving the husband at home with a destination like this.

11.11.2005

In which I have been provided with one more thing to worry about

I want to state for the record that I hate doctor's visits. No matter what I go in for, they seem to find some other reason to poke, prod, or run electricity through my body. I had to go today; I was almost out of my meds, and I knew that there was no chance at all that they'd renew the scrips without an office visit. And I leave for Alabama for a week on Sunday, so it's today or nothing.

Today, Heather - the P.A. - takes a listen to my heart. She says that it skips beats. She takes my pulse. She has her P. A. trainee listen to my heart. "Hear it?" He replies that yes, he hears it. She queries me. Diziness? "No." Can I feel it? "No." Nausia? "No." I can sometimes hear it at night when it's very quiet and my head's on the pillow. And of course on the way home, I did remember that I do sometimes get dizzy spells when I go from crouching to standing.

So, they decide to do an EKG. She shows it to me afterward. There it is, three beats and a half-beat pause, three beats and a half-beat pause. A nice waltz rhythm. The good news is that it's exactly the same as it was the last time I had an EKG two years ago. The bad news is that it needs to be evaluated. I'm supposed to have a call back from the doctor who is in the office today, if he feels like I need to see a cardiologist. So we'll see.

On the flip side, my uncontrolled weight-gain seems to have been checked at 210, and I'm generally feeling better - less fatigue, less depression. Now if I can just loose 50 more pounds; it'd be 40 if I hadn't gained back 10 of my initial weight-loss. *sigh*

11.10.2005

In which the question, "why do they do that?" arises in relation to cats

I found myself in the position to watch the water bowl last night. Moonshadow comes in, and crouches down to drink. I'm aware that his drinking behavior has always been a little peculiar. He walks stiff-legged as he approaches the bowl. He may tug at the side of the bowl repeatedly with his paw, or he may pat at the water, and then lick the water off his paw. Sometimes, he plays in the water, alternately patting, licking his paw, and shaking the water all over the vicinity. I picked him up after last night's session; his front paws were soaked, and his chest and tummy were damp.

After Moon got his drink, Alexander comes in to drink. He crouches in front of the bowl. I have watched him before, and I know that he seems to have trouble lapping up the water. He holds his head almost flat to the surface of the water, and laps a couple of times, then lifts his chin and licks and swallows two or three times, and then laps, lifts his chin, and so forth. The result is that his chin is totally saturated with water by the time he is done. This time I noticed a behavior that I've never seen before - Xander would reach around the water dish with his right paw and dig in his claws (to little effect on the linoleum) and pull himself around the water dish - while drinking - to the right. This of course took some time, since he spends more time swallowing and licking than actually lapping. By the time he was done, he had pulled himself about a third of the way around the water dish.

Of course, I'm asking, "why do cats do that?" Googling "cat drinking behavior" didn't get me much, other than the standard admonishions to always have fresh, ample water, and close the toilet, yadda, yadda, yadda. One site said that cats will stir the water with their paws because the sound and movement are stimulating, and another said that a cat's unusual drinking behaviors are normal and should not be discouraged. But no one can actually explain why they are doing that!

I know why they drool, I know why Hershey liked to suck on blankets, I know why they bring half-dead mousies into the house, I know why a seemingly-contented cat will suddenly turn on the hand that's petting it; I know why they knead, I know why boy cats will bite and scratch hands scratching tummies, but girl cats generally like it. But why do they drink in such funny ways? They don't all do it - it just seems that my two do it. Are they broken?

11.09.2005

In which auxiliary journals are introduced

Feeling the need to document projects in a liner manner, I have set up two blogs auxiliary to The Out Basket. These are the current projects; there are likely to be additional journals as projects develop.

Estrella 2006 Journal is a journal of the projects and preparations for Estrella 2006.

Midwinter Dress Diary is a journal of the clothing that is being made for myself, Robert (Chris) and Evan for Caer Galen's Midwinter Paris 1405, on December 10, 2005.

So far, there's not much posted on them but there will be soon, so keep checking back. Please enjoy, and I welcome comments.

11.08.2005

In which Evan awakes at 4 am

One thing that being a mother has taught me is how to become fully awake and alert from a dead sleep. I didn't do that before Evan was born - of course I slept more soundly then, too. It's a necessity now; having a crying child standing by your face with blood or vomit running down his pajama top will bring you to your senses pretty fast. Well, at least it does me - it seems that Chris is largely oblivious, and will sleep through most any crisis.

This morning at 4, I discovered Evan standing next to my side of the the bed. He was crying, and I recall that his mouth was open like he had something in it that he didn't like. He sounded horse and his speech was punctuated with croupy coughs. I'm looking for bodily fluids, but don't find anything. He says that he has to go potty, and when he comes back I sit up in bed, and pull him in with me. His heart seems to be beating triple-time, and he's complaining about his head. We're still trying to communicate between coughs, and so it takes some time to extract "dizzy" from him. His respirations are fast, too. Of course he'd be dizzy with that happening. I put my hands on his chest to feel for wheezing, and instead find that he's feverish.

Chris is of course fully activated by this time, and has brought in Evan's nebulizer. No, bad idea - it'll raise his heart rate, and we don't need that. I told Chris he'd better get dressed. I had Mother evaluate him. She found that the issue was in his airway rather than his lungs, and concurred that he needed to go to the hospital. Never the calm parent when something's wrong with his kid, Chris is now in full panic mode, racing around, throwing on clothes, fetching sweats for Evan. I admonished him to calm down and he did manage to do so - either due to pressure or exhaustion, I'm not sure - until we finally arrived back home.

I left Evan on the bed being evaluated by Mother while I dressed and brushed my teeth. After a quick search for my insurance card, we bundled boy into the car and headed for Littleton Adventist. By the time we got there, his breathing was approaching normal and I was suspecting croup.

Kids with croup are usually helped by taking them outdoors into the cold. The air temperature seems to relieve the inflammation that causes the croupy cough. The first time he had croup, by the time we got him to the clinic on a freezing night the attacks had largely subsided, and we felt a bit foolish having brought him in. But the doctor explained that we had inadvertantly applied one of the more reliable treatments.

He did have a good cough sitting on the admissions counter, which attracted the attention of the admitting nurse. She said that he was the third kid with croup on the shift, and that the other two kids were much sicker than Evan. They gave him oxygen and a steroid, and by 6:15 we were headed home. I could tell he was feeling better; he was getting ornery in the exam room.

We came home intending to go back to bed, all three of us. Although Evan insisted that he wasn't sleepy, it only took him about 5 minutes in bed between Chris and me to fall asleep. There he remained until 11:00 - five and a half hours. I concluded that he hadn't gotten much sleep the night before, and I do recall hearing coughs throughout the night. He spent the rest of day playing and watching TV; he ate a huge breakfast and drank Silk milk or juice all day. Other than the cough, his behavior was pretty much normal.

He's in bed now. I can hear the occasional cough from his room, but it's been quiet for an hour or so now. We were sent home with a Rx for the same steroid that he had at 5:30 this morning, and directions to use Tylenol for the fever, and a humidifier to assist breating. So far, I think he had a fever early this afternoon, but that was all. Certainly the cough persists, but hopefully there'll be no early morning awakenings tonight.

In which preparations for spring begin

Yesterday the weather was warm and sunny. It seemed like a good day to dig. Having gotten a little giddy at the sight of so many racks of spring bulbs at Home Depot a few weeks ago, I now have the task of finding homes for all of them. The white jonquils with the orange cups have been planted into the daylilly bed, but until yesterday that was as far as I had gotten.

Chris was home, and so I engaged his help with the digging. We dug a triangularish bed under the mailbox, a place that we had discussed needing planting. We discovered that it was another of the overgrown beds in the yard, and of course the corrugated green edging had to be dug up. We expanded a bit beyond the previous bed's dimensions, giving it curvy ends. Like the rest of the bed recovery projects that we've done at this house, the sod is thick and overgrown, and required one person to break it and one to knock the dirt out of the mat. It's hard work.

It took the afternoon, and as the sun was setting, I watered in crocuses and tulips and the two mums that we bought last fall but never got in the ground. There are still daffodils to naturalize under the plum trees in the back yard, and a bag of Princess Irene tulips that need a showcase spot. And I began looking at irises for inclusion in the spring's planting, which will of course require more digging. It's nice to pull in the driveway, or glance out of an upstairs window and imagine the display next spring. Between the iris bed on the east side of the lawn, and this new bulb bed, this end of the street should be a lot more colorful next year.

11.07.2005

In which Halloween becomes Winter and then Fall

Last week was a rough one for me, but the head cold is finally subsiding. I was grateful that the cleaning girl was ill on Thursday, since that was by far the worst day of the illness. On top of the cold, I was having a headache induced by forgetting my meds the day before. I usually spend Thursday mornings picking up clutter ahead of the house cleaning, but the headache had made that an untenable plan.

Part of that plan was to get all the Halloween stuff put away. It's four RubberMaid totes of decorations, and they pretty much spread all over the ground level of the house. Since Thursday was a bust, and Friday was a busy day at work the Halloween stuff was all still out. We'd pretty much eaten or thrown away the leftovers, but the Jack-o-Lanterns still remained on the front porch; the black cats and rats still sat in windows.

Nevertheless, we'd made plans for Saturday to go up into the mountains. I awoke at 8:00 on Saturday to the sounds of Mother getting ready to go out. Figuring that she'd be waiting on us, I tapped on her door and asked, "Are you getting ready to go to the mountains?" No, she had a vet appointment at 9:45, but we could leave as soon as she got back. Evan and Chris got up, we had breakfast and showers, and we packed for the trip. It was 11:15 before we left, with Evan established in his "nest" at the back of the minivan, snacks, drinks, and coats all within easy reach. We were making good time, but spent almost an hour stuck in a traffic jam on C-470, behind construction that had compressed three lanes to one. We planned to eat in Golden, and after some indecision, settled upon Taco Bell. It was 12:30.

We left Golden via US 6 toward Blackhawk. There are a lot of tunnels on that highway, which Evan likes a lot. We began to see snow on the north-facing slopes a few miles into the mountains. We turned north after Blackhawk on the Peak to Peak Scenic Byway. My objective was an overlook that we'd happened upon several years ago; I knew it was in Golden Gate Canyon Park. We turned in, paid our $5, and went a little way down the road in search of a map. The visitor center was open, so we made a rest stop, got the map, petted elk and beaver fur, and located Panorama Point on the map. Evan even posed with a bear. A stuffed bear.

There are at least four entrances to the Park, and Panorama Point is at the other entrance on C-119, to the north. If it was not winter, the connecting road inside the park would be open, but alas, the only access was off C-119. So, we turned back to Peak to Peak, drove north a few miles and then back east to the Point.

I think that Panorama Point is one of the best views in the state of Colorado. At above 9000 feet, you can see from Mount Evans in the south to Longs Peak in the north, and beyond. The view is remarkably unobstructed. Except on Saturday, when a snowstorm to the west kept the peaks shrouded in cloud and snow. The effect was not lost however, and Mother most assuredly wants to return in warmer - and clearer - weather.

The previous night's snowfall clung to the trees, and the winds kept the snow airborne in puffs that looked like clouds or smoke. Driving through a puff of snow was like driving through a little blizzard. The wind was strong enough to buffet the car, and the windchill up at Panorama Point was certainly below zero - the car's temperature read at 21 degrees. We had winter parkas and hats, and everyone but Mother had neglected to bring gloves, so our stay up there was brief.

We returned to C-119, headed for Rollins. Chris had suggested driving west from Rollins toward the East Portal of the Moffat Tunnel, and we agreed. We've been through there a number of times, but always on the train, so this was a completley different perspective. We drove into the storm, and although the road icy, it was flat, and so was pretty easy-going.

Until the second time we had to cross the railroad grade. The tires refused to "bite", and we made very slow progress across the tracks, and then none at all after finally getting off the tracks. The uphill was just too steep for the minivan with fair-weather tires. Worse, there was not enough un-plowed width to turn around, and there was traffic - two cars passed us going east, and one nearly hit us coming around the blind corner too fast going west.

The second of the east-bound vehicles managed to get his right tires in the ditch, which took some work to get out. His was a green four-wheel-drive vehicle, and so he was in better shape than we were. I had gotten out of the minivan to give Chris some direction, and the driver of the green 4WD had gotten out of the ditch, and was heading toward us to help, when Chris did a Y-turn and got the car headed downhill. New tires are definitely in the plan.

We got back to C-119 without further incident. Got some good pictures of passing freight trains, but our timing put us between Amtrak's 5 and 6 trains, and between the morning and evening runs of the Ski Train. The drive was beautiful and I'd like to do it again, next time with chains.

Heading north on C-119, we took a sharp right turn on C-72 toward Pinecliff, and found ourselves along the rail line again. Familiar landmarks kept appearing, ones that we'd seen from the train, of course. I couldn't figure out where the highway would emerge from the mountains, and didn't have a map. Suddenly, everything became clear - this was Coal Creek Canyon, the highway that the rail line crosses just before entering the Tunnel District and South Boulder Creek Canyon. As we headed south on C-93, we watched a freight train making it's slow way up the double-"S" Big Ten Curves.

Since we'd headed home at dusk, we were back at the house early after dining at Mimi's in Golden. We'd decided that we could pack up Halloween in the evening, and so spent an hour on that project. In turn, I opened the "fall" tote, and we put out the decorations for fall and Thanksgiving. The Halloween village has become pumpkins and candles; the candles on the credenza remain, but the tablecloth has been changed to fall leaf napkins.

Only the Jack-o-Lanterns reamined on the front porch. I always purchase pumpkins with the intended end use being to enrich the compost pile. But this year, the RubberMaid composter is full. Although the new iris bed used quite a bit of the ready compost, it also had a lot of turf to be removed, and the grass was pretty long at that. I thought that this would be a good "green" layer, and would break down pretty quickly, but there's been very little compaction. Certainly not enough for the dozen pumpkins that came home with us from Longmont. The composter hasn't been up to our needs for some time, and this seemed as good a time as any to build a new one.

Sunday found us on the back porch sawing, screwing and - after a trip to the Big Tool Box - stapling chicken wire to the frame. We have a new 32 cubic foot compost bin placed between the fence and the ditch to the south of the yard. By the end of Sunday it was half-full of fall yard cleanup. Chris raked the front yard, and I picked up all the dirt clods that wouldn't fit in the composter last spring. Chris cut down the tomato plants, and the sunflowers, and raked up the most recent crop of pulled thistles. The pumpkins and all the innards that didn't fit in the RubberMaid were added, and some kitchen garbage from Sunday's cooking. All we need now is a good layer of grass clippings and another leaf fall, and we're in business.

There's more fall yard work to do - cleaning up this and that, and planting bulbs. But that was a good start for the fall. But I have to admit that Saturday's snowy drive has me thinking about Christmas.

11.06.2005

In which our tradition of Pottering is explained

With the release of the new Harry Potter move, Goblet of Fire on November 18, some thought is going into festivities surrounding that event. We typically celebrate the releases of Harry Potter books and movies, partly because (especially for the books) it's a cause for celebration, and partly because it's an excuse to get dressed up and go out. We call it Pottering.

For the release of the Order of the Phoenix and again for the Halfblood Prince, we went off to the Tattered Cover in Cherry Creek to join their party. Many of the party-goers dress up for the occasion, and so we were not at all out of place. At the first TC party we attended, one of the store's staff pegged us as SCA folks right away. Sheila and Keith were wearing robes based upon t-tunics, and I was wearing a robe based upon a Tudor ropa over a purple taffeta skirt and a black slik blouse. Chris had on a coat that was more Victorian, however, and wore that over a grape-purple jacket in the form of a cassock. We all, of course, sported the requisite pointed wiches' and wizards' hats.

Last summer, for the Halfblood Prince release, we all dressed somewhat more formally. Here is the group of us from the left - Rebecca (Viridian Green), Chris (Agustus Fordham), Melanie (Violet Smethwyk), Keith (Perry), and Sheila (Athena). This seemed to be the popular group picture spot in the store.

We had spent several days in advance sewing clothing for this event. Since I'm on the road alot, some of my work had to be done in Montgomery, AL, in the Embassy Suites that was my home there for three weeks. Being in the South, I was in a great place to look for a hat; even Wal*Mart carried them. I found the black hat you see in the pictures, and added some thin feathers, purple roses and a big black crow. As I was working on the hat, I was amused to recieve all sorts of attention from the rather swishy gentleman who would bring up room service. "You're working it, girl!" he would say to me as I modeled it for him.

Violet's gown is a 1920's flapper style tea gown, with lots of long strings of beads, and beaded trim on the cumberbund and at the neckline. The undergown is of a burned-out floral (quite see-through) pattern, and the overgown is a lovely purple jacquard that I picked up from Denver Fabrics Annex. It's a bit too long and will need to be altered before Goblet of Fire. I'm not sure the boa goes, but I've always wanted to have one.

Agustus is wearing a Victorian styled long coat of black and burgandy brocade, with burgundy velvet cuffs and lapels. There are three gold frogs that clasp the coat together. He wore black and white business attire under it. The top hat does multiple duty as Agustus' hat, a magician's prop, and his vampire character from Halloween.

'Theney choose to model her gown from a Regency style. The fabrics are beautiful, and her hat incindentally came from a Denver Wal*Mart! I've been looking in the wrong places for hats! The gown is layered and moves beautifully. The purse she found thrift-shopping, and is a real gem. I love it and want my own.

Perry wears robes of shocking pink shot with gold, and if memory serves, has a tiny floral pattern. The cravat is lovely, and check out those socks! He looked evey bit the distinguished wizard. 'Theney and Perry even came out for Halloween!

Veridian went for the sultry look. I especially love this picture of her in her green silk dupioni cloak with that feathered standing collar. A little black dress is the foundation of her outfit. Worn with the pillbox hat and tidy black gloves, she's the picture of elegance.

The evening started (as is our custom) with dinner in an interesting resturaunt. We dined at Osaka, and stuffed ourselves on what may be the best sushi in town. We lingered for some time, and then made our way to the Tattered Cover in Cherry Creek.

For much of the evening, we went outside in the courtyard which connects the TC to other stores in the little complex. Being July, it was cooler out there than in the store. We very much enjoyed mingling and people-watching. People kept trying to guess who from the books we were portraying. "No one", we said. "We've created characters from the Harry Potter universe." Nevertheless, Agustus was repeatedly mistaken for Fudge, but I suppose that's due to his no-nonsense character. We also got loads of compliments on our costumes. I started responding, "Costumes? What costumes?"

As midnight approached, we were instructed to line up inside the store. There were long tape lines snaking all over the store, around the bookshelves. The lines ended at the desk where you could finally get your hands on your very own copy. I was hopping a flight the very next day, and so Chris and I purchased two, feeling like we couldn't wait until I got home for one of us to read the book.

The TC did a very smart thing this year; they issued tickets to everyone who pre-reserved a book. This meant that unlike Order of the Phoenix, we got out of the store at 12:20 am, but then had to wait for half an hour to get out of the garage.

And less than a year later, the movie is due. What luck! Getting to go Pottering twice in a year! Plans are similar for November 18. In costume if you like, we'll dine at The Old Spaghetti Factory, and then go to the show. I plan to have tickets purchased in advance, which will insure that we get seats at the time we want. So let me know if you are joining us.

Of course, the question is, "what shall I wear?" I'll not be making anything new for Violet for the movie; I love to make new costumes, but the old ones are so much fun to wear again. There is also the matter of time, and the press of Midwinter to think about. Violet has the older (but warmer) Tudor-style robe in purple brocade, or the tea gown, but this darker character has appeared recently. Chris thinks that NightShade might be a denizen of Diagon Alley. She sure was fun, and it'd be neat to languish on Augustus' arm for the evening.

Chris and I were talking about how fun it'd be to get "dressed" and go out one evening - without Harry Potter for an excuse. I think that the Melting Pot in Littleton is one of the most spooky, mysterious, and unique atmospheres in Denver, but it *is* pricey. One day.

11.04.2005

In which work on Midwinter and Estrella begins in earnest

I laid awake all night Thursday. It wasn't the headcold that was keeping me awake, nor was it cats, or jumpy legs, or anything else logical. I was planning Midwinter and Estrella.

I do this. I can't turn off my brain. I create an idea, and then review it repeatedly, fearing that I will forget it in the light of day. I can't motivate myself to actually get up and write it down; I figure that if I can just turn off the brain that I can get to sleep, and I'm, oh, so close, anyway. So, midnight passes, and then 2 am and then 3..... And I'm still thinking about how long of a 4x4 I can buy and if it'll fit on the minivan, and and if I should pay extra for Sunforger, and does it make sense to shoot it full of holes with the applique, and won't that leak, and if I purchase plain canvas can I afford enough for a good dining fly. You see my problem.

In an effort to get some of this out of my head, I'm going to try to put down on paper the thoughts from last night. But even more, I've retreated to the studio to try to clean up the Halloween exhuberance. The fabric stash has recently developed into two parts, the "good" fabrics, wools, linens, etc, and everything else. Unfortunately, "everything else" seems to wholly occupy the shelves allocated for fabric. Besides sweeping up and putting away, I intend to inventory the "good fabrics" so I have a better idea of what's needed before I hit fabrics-store.com and Fashion Fabrics Club for linen and wool.

Today I feel like I can make it through the day without a nap, so perhaps this afternoon will be productive.

First, decisions crafted in the middle of the night:

For Midwinter: Check fit of Robert's houpelland. May need to remove sleeves to shorten shoulder seam. Since I used Cynthia Virture's rotated point circle plan houppeland, I need to remember to take a smaller "bite" out for the shoulder seam next time. I hope this does not change the length. Make a surcote and headwear for myself, based upon the lady in blue in April from Tres riche heuers. I have a red tapestry picked out, but that would necessitate a gold kirtle, which would have to be made. Not that that's a bad thing; it would serve for Estrella. Or I could keep looking for a blue tapestry for the surcote, and do the necessary handwork on my red kirtle. Or make the gold kirtle anyway, and go in Caer Galen's colors. It all seems like a good plan, but I have just a month to put it together.

Estrella: [Estrella content moved to the Estrella 2006 Journal.]

In which we look back a bit to one of Melanie's Adventures

For the gentle reader's amusement, a travelogue of a train trip I took out to San Francisco last April. I had been summoned to the home office to assist in the Client Support office for a week.

Denver

Got up at 5:00, in the car for the Mineral Light Rail Station by 6:45. I sat next to Evan for the trip to Union Station. The train was about 20 late; not too bad for Amtrak. I secured a seat with electricity, and decided to live with the view obstructed by the space between two windows. I don�t have a seatmate, so I can spread out a little. I went down to the snack bar for breakfast, an egg mcmuffin, and parked myself in the observation car for the trip up to Moffatt Tunnel. Saw a herd of about a dozen mule deer at the Coal Creek Canyon road, just before disappearing into the first of the tunnels in the Tunnel District.

Plainview CO

Joined in the observation car by a woman on a Colorado trip from Minnesota. I played tour-guide; she oohed and ahhed. She was grateful to the point of boasting about her personal tour guide to her friends. We talked about the scenery and Amtrak, and the administration which seems bent on making the rich richer, but won�t protect/promote the environment or a national rail system.
I returned to my seat before entering the Tunnel; the rules state that passengers cannot move between the cars when inside the tunnel. I passed out during the ten-minute ride and woke up in Winter Park, where I saw my tourist and her 6 friends depart the train for a day in Frasier.

Winter Park, CO

I�ve discovered that my seat doesn�t recline all the way. If I can keep both seats to myself for the night at least I can move my body over to the other seat, and possibly get a better night�s sleep. So far, so good.
I�ve also discovered that a three-year-old and his mother occupy the seats in front of me. Since I spent the ride to this point in the observation car, I wasn�t aware of this situation, or how much of an issue this might present. Besides, being the mother of a three-almost-four, I�m thinking that he�s not really able to perturb me very much.
They stepped off the train here for the few minutes that it took to de-train and board more passengers. He was screaming when they got back on. I thought he�d seen someone with ice cream and his mother wouldn�t let him have any � his verbal skills don�t approach Evan�s, so I wasn�t sure. It turns out that he really doesn�t want to be on this train. His cries devolved into that faked bawling that kids do when they�re trying to get Mom to change her mind about the candy in the grocery store. I recognized the tone. It means that Mom�s given in to him often enough that there�s enough of a chance that she might this time too. Being a normal squirmy kid, I can understand his frustration. I think that Mom should let him tour the train, and let him get some of it out of his system. But I see that she might not be very much up to it; I�ve noticed that�s she�s probably 6 or 7 months pregnant.
I did get some sleep in spite of his monkeying around. I heard a few admonitions from his mother (�She doesn�t want you looking at her� and �Please stop it, everyone�s sick of listening to you�) and the usual pre-schooler monologue. But I got some rest.

State Bridge, CO

Lunchtime. Lots of boaters in the Colorado River. We got mooned. I was dining with a couple from Boulder who were on their way to Glenwood Springs for the weekend. It was her birthday present. Lucky girl. The fourth at the table was an elderly British gentleman � not English, but maybe Scot or Irish; his accent was thick. He was on his first holiday in years, he said, traveling through the western hemisphere. He�d spent three days in Chicago, was on his way to San Francisco, and then to Argentina by train. His cousins both live in the southern hemisphere, he said; one in Argentina, and one in Australia. I was a little embarrassed by the locals� behavior, but he cheerfully attributed it to college students. We chatted about the geology; Fountain Formation sandstone, gneiss, granite, limestone. He was interested in the wild life. We saw lots and lots of Canada geese, but not a lot else. Quite a few winter-killed ungulates; what appeared to be an elk and a couple of deer in the river. The birthday girl was grossed out.

West of Glenwood Springs

Third fire. I don�t know if they�re naturally-occurring or human-caused. The first two were before State Bridge. One had a hillside pretty thoroughly involved, and so does this one. The first one I saw actually appeared to be three small ones, and because they were narrow smoke columns, and proximate, I�m guessing that there�s a coal seam on fire up there.
I didn�t remember that the Colorado River valley broadens out west of Glenwood. I must have slept through this part the last time we came this far west on the train. And we don�t seem to take I-70 west of Glenwood; if we go west, we have taken less-traveled highways. It�s pretty. Broad and sunny, the valley seems to be well populated, and the train parallels the highway. The river is wide, but of course features wide boarders of tamarisk. I love the way it looks, but I see it everywhere and the enormity of the problem is apparent. Where there are breaks in the overgrowth, some cottonwoods remain, with their associated riparian ecosystem. But they sometimes seem few and far between.
Jayden and his mom stepped off the train at Glenwood Springs of course. He�s been crying ever sense. I can tell he�s sleepy, but of course, mom can�t get him to nap. It�s now been an hour since leaving the station, and he�s still at it. She�s been pretty patient up to now, but seems to be loosing it rapidly. People keep coming by and trying to talk to him, I suppose because they think if they can distract him, he�ll quiet down. I figure that when he does finally let go, he�ll sleep like the dead.

Palisade, CO

Jayden still cries. He�s making himself sick; a really miserable little boy. I�m not so much perturbed as feeling pretty sorry for him and mom. I�ve considered offering to spell her, but I�m unsure of the response. Sometimes the desperate noises he�s making to keep himself awake are pretty funny. Moms would understand. I�m struck at how different Evan would be under the circumstances. Oh sure, he�d resist sleeping, but wouldn�t be crying for an hour an a half straight. Of course, we�d be using different strategies with him. Nonetheless, Mom is still patient with Jayden.

Orchards! Here must be the source of Colorado�s famed fruit crop. There�s two large vineyards next to the tracks, and Pallisade looks like a pretty little town. Which reminds me that San Francisco is practically next door to one of the best wine-producing valleys in the world. And on the train I have the room to bring home a case and replenish my wine cellar.

Grand Junction, CO

Jayden passed out just before the stop. Blessed silence! I�m sure his mother�s relieved. I stepped off and made a quick walk up and down the train, got a Dr. Pepper, and returned to my seat. The weather is beautiful, warm, sunny, with a few clouds. It�d be a nice day to explore the town.
The old train station is abandoned, and a new station has been built alongside. A beautiful example of municipal architecture, the old station features egg-and-dart stone mouldings, stained and faceted glass round-topped windows, and other unique features. It looks like there has been a movement to preserve the building, but the new clay roofing tiles look like they�ve been on the same pallets for many, many months.
There�s a flier inside the new station about preserving rail service from the National Association of Railroad Passengers. The graphics show a dramatic decrease in rail service from 1967 to 1978, and the present. There are requests for letters not only to our senators and representatives but also to our local governments to preserve and expand rail service in the US. In some conversations that I�ve had today, I understand that the issue isn�t only funding, but also right-of-way. The freight companies � who own the right-of-way � are resistant to sharing right-of-way with passenger service. And I can see why. I can�t count the number of times we�ve stopped on a siding for a coal train to pass. The coal trains are not just numerous, but long; my Brit dining companion said that he�d counted over one hundred cars on two of the trains. I�ve not been able to count them. I keep loosing count.
Now that we�re on the western slope, perhaps the coal traffic will abate somewhat, since most of the Colorado coal comes from a mining district south and east of Grand Junction.

Colorado River Canyon, West of Fruita, CO

Ruby Canyon. Burgundy, pink, peach, and buff paint the sandstone and limestone walls of the Colorado�s canyon here, sculptured by wind and water. Soft concavities are punctuated with spires of stone and perched erratics. Vegetation grips the slopes and clings to rock falls. The wide Colorado flows next to the train, with only a ripple here and there to indicate the current. Canada goose and cranes are plentiful, and I even saw a wild turkey. Surely this is the gods� rock garden.
Yet, salt cedar and bare bottoms remain. (What compels people to drop their drawers when a passenger train goes by?)
The conductor has been great, posting interesting tidbits over the PA. I didn�t see it, but just now he pointed out the demarcation between Colorado and Utah, so I guess we�ve crossed the line.

Eastern Utah
The Wasatch Range has just come into view. Snowcapped and broader than the Colorado Rockies, they still tower over the desert.

46 miles west of Fruita, CO

The rails continue to run along I-70. Had dinner with a British couple, and we shared garden and orchid stories. It seems that buttercups are as hated in England as my thistles. A pair of respectable beef medallions was the fare. A Series of Unfortunate Events was the first of the double-feature movies, and after dinner I watched what I guessed was the last half or so. I�ve generally found Jim Carrey to be repulsive in whatever he�s acted in, but for this role he was perfect. Just as I�d imagined Count Olaf.

Utah and Nevada

I�m considering trying to upgrade to a sleeper on the way back, when I�ve got a paycheck to do it with, since sleeping has proven a bit more of a challenge then I�d anticipated. I still have my two seats, and so I was able to move between them. I did catch some sleep, but was awakened frequently by stiffness, or the armrest indenting my ribcage. I�ve also had jumpy legs after gardening on Thursday and Friday, and this meant that I couldn�t relax in what should have been the most relaxing position � on my back, with the footrest up. I�ll catch more sleep later today, although the stretch after we get into California is the other spectacular bit of scenery on this route.
My seat with power has come with another drawback � it�s parallel with the staircase to the lower level, which is illuminated all night. I of course awake every time the train stops. I did see the Mormon Tabernacle in Salt Lake; it�s a beautiful bit of architecture, and brilliantly illuminated.

Battle Mountain, NV

I awoke at about 7:00 with the huge BM on the side of the hill outside my window. When Chris and I drove to California last May, we wondered what they were thinking. Why would they do that?
Battle Mountain is along I-80, and so now we�ve changed highways. Had breakfast before Winnemucca; the pancakes were good, as was the breakfast conversation.

Winnemucca, NV

The train is running about an hour late, I suppose partly due to the great number of coal trains that we waited on in the Rockies. They tend to make up time across the floor of the Great Basin. I notice that the trucks on the highway are keeping pace so I�d guess we�re about 70 mph at times. They also make up time by limiting stops to the amount of time necessary to de-train and board new passengers. I grabbed my coat and followed the smokers to catch what fresh air I could.
My coach car is close enough to the rear of the train that on left-hand turns, I get to see the engines. There are two, followed by a baggage car, and two sleepers. My walk this morning allowed me to survey the rest of the train. The dining car follows, and the sightseer car, and then my coach. There are two more coaches at the rear of the train. I hear that private cars sometimes hook up to the Zephyr, but the cost is considerable.
The Great Basin is beautiful in it�s own desolate sort of way. We still pass plenty of trains, but there�s space for twin tracks, and so we�re not waiting on freights any more. The weather is overcast and chilly; the peaks look to be either windy or snowing.

114 miles east of Reno, NV

Passing under some high peaks to the south, what must be the south barrier of the Great basin here. They�re not only white-capped, but they�re getting more snow. I-80 is maybe a seventy-five yards south of (and parallel to) the rails. I�m sitting in the Sightseer car, reading old h-costume posts. I can hear Jayden protesting his confinement every time the door between the cars opens. Mom took him out to run during our brief Winnemucca stop; the bit of freedom seems to make the subsequent confinement less and less tolerable.

Reno, NV

I thought I�d missed it. The rails follow the Truckee River through a canyon, which seems to open up into a wide valley. I though I remembered Reno, and then the canyon, but there�s more canyon above, too. A lot of people got on, and I lost my spare seat. It seems that folks take the train up from Sacramento or San Francisco for the weekend in Reno.
A volunteer from the train museum on Sacramento has boarded, and has promised to provide us with historical details of the route over Donner Pass. The weather is sunny, and the tops of the Sierras are snowcapped.

Truckee, NV

Lots of snow on the ground, and the skies are overcast. It�s lunchtime in Denver, but since we�re in California, the dining car is waiting to serve until noon local time. I gave up, and ordered a bratwurst and chips from the snack bar. I really wanted that burger, though. I�ll bet the pub at the hotel has good burgers.
In stark contrast to the Colorado river, the Truckee is crystal clear. I�d expect that; it is outflow from Lake Tahoe. It�s said to be unusual in that it doesn�t flow into the ocean. It drains into Lake Victoria in the Great Basin, where I suppose it dries up.

Donner Pass, CA

Up at 7000 feet, the snow is flying. Lots of snow on the ground, and one of the ski areas we�ve passed still has the ski lifts running. Beautiful scenery. I lingered in the sightseeing car until I got sleepy. I�m going to try to get some rest.

Sacramento, CA

The train stopped well before the station. And sat. Our promised twenty-minute layover dissolved. The lady sitting next to me complained about Jayden, and I defended him. After all it is a huge thing to expect a three-year-old to sit basically in one place for over two days. Yes, his mother should have given him supervised run of the train. Yes, she should have let him sit in the dining car rather than always eating at their seat. All things considered, he did as well as could be expected. There is a new little child � maybe almost three � and her mom and dad walk up and down the aisles with her. Not surprisingly, she�s a lot happier. At least until he mom told her she couldn�t sit on the steps.
Again, I�m struck at the lushness of the California landscape. The tracks were lined with lupines in the Sierra�s foothills. I�m thinking that I should be calling Bera, but the phone is dead, and of course I made it away without a charger. I�ll have to remedy that this evening.

Davis, CA

Jayden and his mom de-trained at Sacramento. The complaining lady next to me has de-trained here. I have my nest back. It�s 4:40; the timetable shows that we are now two hours behind. This puts me into San Francisco at about 8:00 tonight. It looks like I�ll be dining aboard the train tonight.

Martinez, CA

We�ve just passed through one of the largest and richest marshlands that I�ve ever seen. Lots and lots of birds, and the buildings are almost all built on stilts. So flooding must occur. Ducks occupy the open water, walking in the shallows, or with heads under the surface. Lots of large white birds that I think are egrets. A larger sandhill crane, even a pheasant. Larger white birds with black wing tips, and far out in the marsh, large groups of other white birds that appear to be swans. Many small songbirds, too.

We are crossing what I believe is Suisun Bay, and the conductor tells me that it�s 40 minutes to Emeryville. I guess we made up some time from Sacramento. It�s now 5:22, so my estimation of 8:00 should be revised to 7:00. The train is now virtually empty. The tracks have been double all through California, which has eliminated the repeated extended waits on sidings in the Rockies. The clouds are closing in, though. I hope I don�t have to walk to the hotel in the rain.

Crockett, CA

Passing under the bridge which carries I-80 over Suisun Bay. Considering the proximity of the marches to Suisun bay, I wonder if those weren�t salt marxhes,a nd the buildings up on stilts due to the tide. We are hugging the north coast of the bay, and I expect to turn left and see the Golden Gate at any moment. In a few minutes, I�ll need to pack up my nest. But for now, I�m affixed to the window viewing the shoreline. I�m now spotting sea birds; cormorants, sandpipers and gulls. And lots of low bushes or groundcover with brilliant pink or red flowers. There�s Mount Tam, which slopes down to the Golden Gate on the south. So, a couple more turns to the left?
Canada goose, red-winged blackbird
People seem to fish a lot in the bay, either off the shore or off piers.
Well, it�s about ten minutes from our destination. Time to close up and pack.

11.02.2005

In which we start to move forward

Yes, we're still eating Halloween leftovers. For breakfast, lunch and dinner. It's good to have cookies and cupcakes for breakfast!

But it's time to move forward. Today promises to be warm, and so I am resolved to get out into the garden. Our compost bin is full to overflowing, and we need additional capacity, what with the pumpkins and the end-of-season garden waste. So, there's a compost frame to build. I still have several bags of bulbs to plant, and the sunflowers need to be yanked up.

With the end of the Halloween festivities, there's also a house full of decorations to pack away, and to catch up on the clutter that accumulated since Halloween began consuming all waking hours. So maybe I won't get out in the garden.

Thanksgiving will be the next holiday of note in our house. We will invite all friends in for Thanksgiving dinner around our big dining room table. The numerous dishes prepared usually require their own buffet, and so the buffet we cobbled together for Halloween will likely remain a fixture through Thanksgiving and until it is required for Christmas dinner.

Thanksgiving is a lot lower-key than Halloween, and for that I'm grateful since I will be working on clothing for Caer Galen Midwinter by then. My apprentice Savina La Brune is coordinating a lot of the Caer Galenites' clothing for the event, at which the theme is Paris 1405. Being a specialist in the clothing from that time and place, her skills have been tapped by the Baron to coordinate fittings and author papers which will direct attendees to resources which are consistant with the theme. It is of course a huge job, complicted by a short time frame and the fact that she's got limited - but good - help.

So, I'm turning my attention to sewing for Midwinter starting this week, after clearing the studio of the Halloween-making frenzy. I made Robert a red houppeland with blond fur trim for the Pas, which I will likely tweak for Midwinter. He needs a hat; a flambouyant chaperone should do it. For me, I need to finish the kirtle that I made for the Pas. It needs to be ripped down the front center seam, and have eyelets sewn in, and it of course needs the interior raw edges finished.

I plan to make a surcote to wear over it, but I'm at a loss as to what fabric to use. I have a couple of very nice brocades, but I feel like they are more suitable to 1450 and after. I could use one of the worsted wools I picked up in Montgomery, Alabama, but I had decided that they need to become kirtles for Estrella. I may just go the the Denver Fabrics Annex on payday, and see if I can find a more suitable brocade.

Following Thanksgiving, we will of course start to decorate for Christmas. Christmas is a Big Deal in our house, but without the sewing that has to be done before Halloween. Most of the Christmas decorations are in the storage unit; the process will involve at least a couple trips there and back. It takes a week to put up and another week to put away.

After Christmas, the push towards Estrella begins in earnest. We are all three short on clothing, and I expect to be making a largish purchase from fabrics-store.com fairly soon. Robert also needs a gambeson before the War, so I have a list. We're doing a woodworking workshop at our house the weekend after Thanksgiving, so most of the furniture should be able to be checked off that list before Christmas, allowing me to focus on sewing in January.

But today, I have a cold. So maybe I'll start looking forward tomorrow.

11.01.2005

In which all may be revealed

The costumes, starting with the cutest:

Spiderman. Evan decides months in advance what he wants to be for Halloween, and what theme he wants for his birthdays. He is not to be dissuaded. Spiderman was last birthday, and at the same time, the decision for this Halloween. I believe he has already settled on Dinosaurs for next birthday.













Me as NightShade, a "bad fairy". More of a concept than a character, NightShade is the creepy side of nature - bats, spiders, mice, ravens, black roses. You know those things that go "bump" in the night? NightShade is one of those things..... She's the unseen side, the sexy, the mysterious. NightShade has given me a chance to reconnect with the darker side of my personality; the concept of chaos and the creativity of both costume and concept have been very satisfying.










NightShade with a pet.


















Chris' Neo-Classical Vampire. He scared a few kids who came to the door.

















Two creatures of the night.


















The other Halloween Celebrants:

Mabbina as Shreck.


















Guillaume and Arwen as Wizards in dress robes, from the Harry Potter Universe.


More pictures are available at Flickr.


Chris and I went Trick-or-Treating with Evan and his Grandma. Mabbina, Arwen and Guillaume stayed at the house to hand out candy. The evening was cool and dry, and we saw quite a few kids going door to door. Nevertheless, I think Evan brought home as much loot as we handed out.

We retired to the house for Halloween Supper, and spent the evening dining and conversing in the most civilized fashion. There was, of course, too much food, and although some went home with our guests, we will be eating leftovers for days.